Thursday, 13 October 2016

INTRODUCING THE NEW MAN IN MY LIFE - JERALD, THE RAGDOLL CAT!

Honestly, I never, EVER wanted any pet.
But this is how it happened. 
My daughter wanted a pet. 
I got her a hamster. 
She loved and looked after that hamster beautifully, all by herself. 
Then the hamster died. 
So I bought her another one. 
The same thing happened: she loved, she looked after and eventually the hamster died of old age. 
Then she wanted another pet - but not a hamster. 
Rabbits and guinea pigs are too hard to look after. 
Dogs require too much walking and looking after. 
And so we decided on a cat. 
Why a ragdoll?
I heard that they love cuddles, people and being handled, all things that I knew my daughter would want in a pet. 
I still didn't want one, but then I met Jerald. 
And I fell in love. 
Aren't ragdolls the just the cutest?! It's like having another baby in the house. 
He's cheeky and fun and loves to play: 
With empty boxes of any kind!
In the box below he's wondering if he's 'free range' or organic!!
He is officially the new man in my life and particularly likes my bed!
And recently he got in the way of my filming, but I didn't have the heart to cut him out because he looked so cute. So if you want to see him in action, check through to the end of this video to watch him make his first cameo appearance. Tell me if you can't take your eyes off him?!

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Sunday, 9 October 2016

MOTHER AND SON PERU ADVENTURE!

Sorry for my absence, but I've been busy travelling - this time to Peru! A film of this adventure can be seen on my new YouTube channel Go with Jo: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MrkX6l6PvLI

I’d been wanting to go there for ages, but because my husband had already travelled there pre-me (he walked the Inca Trail) he kept choosing to explore countries new to him. And so it was that I came up with another plan – to take my adventurous thirteen-year-old son Gabriel with me there instead. Not only was Gabriel up for it, he was ecstatic at the notion.

My dream was to visit Machu Picchu, but my son was keen to explore the jungle and eventually we decided upon a week-long itinerary which incorporated the two. A quick overnight in Lima staying at the J W Marriott Hotel gave us enough time to explore the capital’s chic, trendy Miraflores district before hopping on an internal flight to Puerto Madonaldo, gateway to the Amazon jungle.



The thrill I experienced as we sailed in a motorboat along a tributary of the Amazon towards our first hotel – the Inkaterra Reserva Amazonica – was huge. I kept pinching myself to believe I was really there, in the middle of remote jungle, far, far away from civilisation as I know it.  

We’d heard great reports about the boutique Inkaterra chain of hotels in Peru and particularly loved their eco-friendly credentials. And if you’re going to be in the jungle, you (or at least I) might prefer to do it in style, which is something else that Inkaterra does well!

We loved our wooden cabana which overlooked the river, with its beds draped in mosquito nets and its porch with two hammocks. Gabriel wasted no time hopping into one of them. I imagine that he would have happily stayed glued to his hammock for a whole week, but I pulled him out so that we could go on a twilight river cruise. We spotted the world’s biggest rodent (a capybara) as well as a posse of baby white spectacled caimans. Sailing along the river in the dark, listening to the jungle’s sounds of the night was both eerie and magical rolled into one.




Over the next two days one adventure followed another as we packed in excursion after excursion, all included in the price. There was great camaraderie and banter between fellow guests (we made a lot of friends) and wherever we went we were accompanied by knowledgeable guides who took great delight in having a joke at our expense. Their favourite line was: “Let’s go. The tarantulas are waiting for you.” We trekked through the jungle day and night and yes, we did see tarantulas – very scary for a woman that normally shrieks when she spots a common house spider! The only thing which matched in terms of scariness was seeing a toxic toad – their bites are fatal. Needless to say we steered well clear.


The jungle floor was covered with creepy crawlies, including an army of leaf-carrying ants. There were fire ants too, one of which bit poor Gabriel. Their bites aren’t dangerous, but they REALLY hurt for ten minutes or so. Higher up monkeys hopped from tree to tree, several different species, many of them endangered. And way above the treetops (we followed Inkaterra’s canopy walkway - a series of suspension bridges 30 metres high) countless exotic, brightly –coloured birds soared overhead.



For two days we laughed, we shrieked and we lapped up every second, with other highlights including paddling a native canoe along a lake as the sun set. Oh, and the food. We expected little in terms of jungle cuisine, so it was a pleasant surprise to eat so well. Everything’s made from local produce and my favourite was paiche – a large white-meat fish – which comes served either in a palm leaf or in a spicy stew. Delicious. 




The jungle had been Gabriel’s choice, not mine, but I was so pleased he insisted we go there because it was enthralling from beginning to end. We transferred for our third night to Inkaterra’s smaller hotel in the Amazon – the Hacienda Concepcion – where we slept in a cabana on stilts, went piranha fishing (and caught one would you believe!) and found the plant that viagara is made from in their botanical garden.




Then we were back on a plane, flying over the Andes to Cusco. To acclimatise to the high altitude we stayed a night in nearby Sacred Valley (which is en route to Machu Picchu) in what can only be described as a dream hotel, the Hacienda Urubamba. Not only is its setting high in the Andes spectacular, so are the hotel’s interiors – think log fires and leather sofas draped with Peruvian rugs and cushions.  




The next morning we breakfasted on sensational quinoa pancakes and afterwards a guide from our tour operator Aracari drove us to Ollantaytambo, where we boarded a train which took us to the town of Agua Calientes, gateway to Machu Picchu.

We dropped our bags off at our hotel (more of which later) and wasted no time in heading up to the ruins of the ancient citadel, otherwise known as the lost Incan City.

Sometimes when you’ve dreamed of something for so long, when it actually happens it can be an anti-climax. Seeing Machu Picchu for the first time, however, was everything I hoped it would be. The magnificence and the improbability of such an advanced city like this being built six hundred years ago at the top of a jagged mountain 2,400 meters high, took our breath away.




The Incans were geniuses, building walls without cement which endured several centuries and earthquakes. Our guide told us how they worshiped the mountains and sacrificed girls as young as fourteen. Llamas roam free around the ruins and Gabriel had great fun trying to take selfies with them. Needless to say, the llamas did not behave!

The next day our breath was taken away quite literally…on a hike from the ruins of the citadel up to the summit of Machu Picchu Mountain, climbing the original steps carved out of the rock by the Incans. It took two hours (less to get down) but the on-top-of-the world view was worth every ounce of effort. 

My only regret was not to have longer to enjoy all there was on offer at our final Inkaterra hotel, the Machu Picchu Pueblo. It was set in glorious cloud forest, with its own orchid garden, bear sanctuary (they rescue the endangered spectacled Andean bears of Paddington Bear fame) and tea plantation. 

Oh well, it just gives us a great excuse to go back again…very soon!



 To see a film of our trip, click this link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MrkX6l6PvLI

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Thursday, 23 June 2016

WHY I PRAY THE UK VOTES TO REMAIN IN THE EU!

OMG - I can't believe the day has finally arrived! Today the UK votes in the referendum on whether to stay in or leave the European Union. For me, the decision was easy. In fact, to date I have never been as politically passionate or motivated by something as I am by this. In fact, I couldn't wait to cast my vote!

After school I read Law with French at Sussex University. The reason I chose that course is because it combined the minimum of law together with European Studies, and it was the latter (and the French!) which was really enjoyable. I learned all about the EU - about why it was formed, which countries started it. And what makes me so sad is that the reasons for its beginnings are being forgotten in this whole heated debate. The European Union was created after the Second World War and the reason it was created was to provide a PEACEFUL union for all countries involved. It was to prevent a World War Three; it was to create a peaceful world; and in that respect it has been HUGELY SUCCESSFUL! 
All the 'Leave' campaign's arguments (which I disagree with by the way) about an improved economy, more jobs etc don't even bother me. Even if they were right, it's irrelevant. What matters is that we stand together. United we are strong. Isolated we are weak. 
I have told my children that I don't want to live in a UK that isn't part of the EU. I consider myself European. I have studied in Belgium. I have lived and worked in France. I travel constantly across Europe. I enjoy that freedom and don't want it to stop. I'm now just praying that the majority of my fellow countrymen and women feel the same way. I don't want to have to leave my country. I would like to stay here. But only if it's a Britain that stays in Europe.  
Deep breath.   
Fingers crossed. 


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Friday, 18 December 2015

Snowy, sexy romance now on sale for 99 cents / 99 pence

It's that Christmassey time of year, when there's something so romantic about snow and cuddling up in front of a raging log fire. Weak at the Knees is a sexy, snowy romance set in the French Alps which is now on sale for the Christmas holiday period. 

US: http://www.amazon.com/Weak-at-the-Knees-ebook/dp/B00E4VC70W/ref=dp_kinw_strp_1

UK: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Weak-at-the-Knees-ebook/dp/B00E4VC70W/ref=dp_kinw_strp_1


Happy Christmas et Joyeux Noel to you all and wishing you a healthy, happy 2016!

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Friday, 11 December 2015

A STAR IS BORN!

And no, this isn't a nativity story!

My thirteen year old daughter Nathalie has been composing songs since she picked up a guitar aged two. She performed the 'stripped down' version of her latest composition at a special Christmas concert last night and no matter how many times I hear it, the hairs on my arms stand to attention and my eyes moisten.

At the gig two teenagers were sitting behind me and after Nathalie's performance they were buzzing (and I was earwigging big time!) "How on earth did she write that, age 13?" one said. "I'd go out and buy that as a single now," her friend replied.

I am the proudest mum...EVER. And if you watch the video, I think you'll see why.


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Friday, 18 September 2015

48 HOURS IN SAN FRANCISCO - TOP TIPS!

Well, actually, it was more like 72 hours in San Fran, but one day was spent out of town, taking my ten year old daughter to Palo Alto, near Stanford University, so that she could go to American Girl (a well-known US shop who's San Fran branch is in the Stanford Shopping Center) which sells over-sized and over-priced dolls that she loves!! Expensive though they are, I kind of don't mind it, because she plays with them endlessly, really good, constructive play (making them clothes, role-playing, fixing their hair etc) and it beats being on an electronic device! Here are two of her dolls (see photo below): Julie and Hannah.

Right, back to San Fran itself. We booked an Alaska Cruise with Princess Cruises which left from San Fran and had a few days to kill before we set sail. We had an absolute blast. It's a great city, with a great vibe, which the kids all adored. It's not quite the San Fran of 20 years ago (it felt much more touristy than I remember and there was a noticeable problem with homeless people on the streets) but it was still a lot of fun and feels very European for an American city.

We stayed at the Sir Francis Drake Hotel (a Kimpton hotel) on Powell Street - brilliantly and centrally located near Union Square, with Beefeaters welcoming us on a red carpet (see pic of a jet-lagged me with a Beefeater below). The property oozed with character and was very olde worlde - with sweeping staircases and huge chandeliers inside. Better still, they had complimentary tea and coffee in the morning at reception as well as a drinks reception with nibbles at 5.30pm daily. You could drink unlimited wine which was a lovely touch. A great way to start your evening.

A GREAT HOTEL TIP FOR IN AMERICA: We are a family of five, but there are rarely rooms which sleep five. Instead we booked what's called a 'double double'  (from £170.00 / $265.00) a night. It sleeps four, but we brought a cheap blow-up mattress with us and the hotel was happy to provide the bed-linen. I would absolutely do this again in an American hotel. It's so much cheaper than paying for two rooms and for a few nights we were fine all squeezing into one.

We arrived at the hotel mid-afternoon and to keep ourselves awake we walked to Chinatown (only ten minutes by foot) and mooched around its fabulous shops before finding a very cheap restaurant on the main strip (a huge plate of ribs, rice and vegetables only cost us $16 and was enough to feed a small army!)

DAY ONE PROPER:
We started our day (we were awake very early thanks to jet lag) by taking a trip on San Fran's famous trolley cars (we call them 'trams' in the UK). The stop was right outside our hotel and because it was so early in the morning, there was nobody about and we got on to the trolley just fine. Wait until 10 am and there's a huge queue to get onto one.

We rode the trolley to Fisherman's Wharf and showed the children the sea lions lounging in the harbor and saw the Golden Gate Bridge in the distance. We walked along the seafront, checking out the different piers and watched San Fran wake up. It was a lot of fun. From there we walked to Lombard Street (the crookedest street in the world!) famous for being the scene for a car chase in the movie Bullitt, starring Steve McQueen. It was then the children realized quite how hilly a city San Fran is! All the walking did our jet lag and thigh muscles a lot of good. We walked all the way to the Japan Center from there (again, to stay awake) and bought some incredible, cheap sushi from the Japanese supermarket which we ate al fresco in the Japan Center's park, complete with pagoda. That afternoon I wanted to do something my husband and I hadn't done on our previous trip to San Fran. So we took the train to the Golden Gate Park and chilled out there for a few hours. My children had brought their tennis rackets with and they played on the courts for free. Golden Gate Park is fantastic - a bit like London's Hyde Park - a vast yawning space for walking and lazing. We took a picnic dinner with (bought from Bristol Farm - an organic supermarket in Westfield Shopping Centre, a five minute walk from out hotel). Perfect. Talking about Westfield Shopping Centre - that's pretty perfect too, with an Abercrombie & Fitch and a host of other great shops everyone in the family will want to go to! Everything in the US costs a lot less than in the UK. At least that was the case at the time of writing this!

DAY TWO
It was the morning of day two that I took my daughter to American Girl (we took the Caltrain commuter train - the station was a 20 minute walk from our hotel) whilst my husband took the other two children to go shopping in Abercrombie & Fitch and also found a fun doughnut place! That afternoon we found another spot we'd never been to before. It was a lovely little beach very close to the Golden Gate Bridge. It's a secret haunt of locals and we were the only tourists there. It was heavenly. Lovely white sand, hot sun and an amazing view of 'that' bridge! That evening we ate at Westfield Shopping Centre. The basement is full of concessions offering different food and loads of tables to eat at. Some of my family picked take-out deli food from Bristol Farm. I got a gorgeous bowl of steaming hot noodle soup with vegetables from a Japanese stand.  

DAY THREE
Lots of people kept telling us about the Exploratorium Museum and that we really should go. It's a hands-on sort of Science Museum with lots of exhibits that you can interact with, from magic demonstrations to being part of a hologram. It was just amazing. We only had two hours to spend there, but we could have spent all day. The highlight was the Blind Maze. You have to pay extra to do it, but it is so worth it. Basically, what the maze consists of is a space you enter where you can't see anything. It's completely dark. You have to climb through tubes and across mesh and work together as a team whilst doing it 'blind'. It's about sensory deprivation and scary and claustrophobic though it felt at first (these were very cramped spaces and sometimes you had to duck as an adult so that your head wouldn't hit the ceiling), it was a unique experience which I'll never forget. Second time round it feels much easier, because you know what you're doing. 
After the Exploratorium Museum we had tickets to visit Alcatraz.  
TOP TOURIST TIP: DO NOT ARRIVE IN SAN FRAN WITHOUT HAVING BOOKED UP TICKETS TO VISIT ALCATRAZ IN ADVANCE. YOU NEED TO RESERVE ABOUT 6 WEEKS AHEAD OF YOUR TRIP, OTHERWISE EVERYTHING WILL HAVE SOLD OUT. 
This was the view of Alcatraz from the ferry which took us there.  

And this was what we saw whilst we were enjoying the inspired new audio-tour. 
My son Gabriel, 12, thought Alcatraz was one of the best things he had ever seen. He was captivated from beginning to end, learning about the history of the prison island, about the prisoners themselves and about the attempted escapes. Be warned, there is no food which can be bought on the island, so you have to take anything you might want to eat with you, but food can only be eaten by the dock. It's to control the problems they have with gulls. 
After Alcatraz we mooched to the Ferry Building which is along the esplanade, about a twenty minute walk from the Alcatraz pier. Here there's a whole lot of food stands and restaurants, some inside, some outside. We ended up in 'Gotts' which is a burger bar. We had a table out front in the sunshine and for a bargain $4.99 the kids each had a burger, fries and unlimited refills of their drinks. I sneaked out and treated myself to a clam chowder from a seafood stand within the building. Delicious. 
It was an amazing three days in San Fran and the next morning we took a hire car and went to Napa............more on that in another post!

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